Confessions of Frugal Failures


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I’m a frugal, competitive person.  I want to win, always.  I want to find the best deals, always.  I want to be in the know of everything going on, always.  BUT, here’s my secret…I’m a failure at most of these things.  Sometimes, I fail at these things daily.  And I’m okay with that. The odds are still in my favor of being successful more times than not, but I’ve realized that I enjoy the “hunt” of the deal more than actually acquiring the deal.  Weird, right?  I feel a rush at finding a product at 90% off, but then am hesitant at purchasing it.  Seriously, I can’t get out of my own head sometimes.

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However, there are times when I made the choice to buy something…and that something turned out to be a dud.  a zonk.  a big fat nada of a deal.  A waste (gasp!) of our time and money.  100%.  So, have no fear, we are all human in this savings game…and while we all have our great stories of frugal success, I’m here to share my failures.

Failure #1:  Buying veggies and fruit in bulk.

STOP.  Just STOP.  Why do I do this?  Every single time.  I see a deal on apples, and I think “Oh, my family can eat 27 lbs. of apples of 3 days, no worries.”  Then, suddenly, my children decide for that week, and for that week only, that they no longer like apples and those 27 lbs. of apples become my curse.  I start thinking…what can I make with apples?  Apple cinnamon muffins?  Check.  Apple butter?  Sure, why not.  So…that then leaves 25 lbs. of apples for me to consume.  Game on.  (Did I mention I’m competitive…!)  But really, STOP buying fruits and veggies in bulk.  I’ve wasted so much more money than saved on this.

Failure #2:  Planting a Garden.

Now, this is MY failure only. Please understand that.  I know that there are some people who can plant a garden and it can grow enough to feed a small army.  Me?  I plant, and plant….and plant, and NOTHING grows.  As a matter of fact, and this is a true-to-honest story, I did NOT plant a garden this year and this year I have had my most successful garden EVER.  Seriously.  (Yes, insert laughter here because it’s quite comical.) We have like a million cherry tomatoes, and I DID NOT plant tomatoes.  So, hat’s off to that…but in the 3 years past, we’ve wasted a ton of money planting seeds to grow food to save money (ironic, right?)…and it’s all gone to waste.

Failure #3: Driving 5 miles to save .05 cents.

Am I the only one guilty of this?  I just can’t stop.  I know the sale ads in all the stores…and I will drive to each and every one of them to save a few cents.  Seriously, what the heck is wrong with me?  Not only am I spending more money in gas…it’s a waste of my TIME!  Stop it Thena, just stop it!

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Failure #4:  Over-purchasing Sale Items.

If it’s on sale, I need it!  If it’s a good deal, I want it!  I’m really bad about this at the grocery store….if a product that my family has NEVER tried is on clearance, and there is only 10 of them left, I’ll buy all 10.  Why?  BC it’s a good deal!  BUT, what usually happens is that my family then doesn’t like it…so, I’m left with 9 1/2 boxes of  “whatever” that we won’t eat and my suddenly great deal cost us a lot of money!

Failure #5:  Buying a used car based on emotions.

Yep, been there, done that.  We needed a second car…we found one we liked from a private party…We met the nicest elderly gentleman, we listened to his stories, he drew us in to his life, his struggles, yadda yadda yadda…the car was low mileage, and so well taken care of, so what did we do next logically?  We bought the car.  And guess what?  It was a lemon.  A sour, rotten lemon.  (Maybe it was low mileage bc he couldn’t get it to run to move it either, who knows) That car, beautiful as it was, spent more time sitting than driving and cost us a lot in terms of money, stress and emotions.  Curse our sensitivity and hearts for buying this car, as our emotions outweighed the sense of this purchase.

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Why am I sharing my frugal failures with you?  Because we are human.  We all make mistakes.  We all learn from these mistakes, but I think it’s important to share those mistakes with each other  to know we aren’t alone.  My failures may not be your failures, but I hope that you can learn from mine, and laugh with me.

Do you have any frugal failures?  Share the love! 🙂


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214 thoughts on “Confessions of Frugal Failures”

  1. Thank you so much for writing this post! I have probably done 4/5 of these. more times than I can count. I keep plugging away and trying to improve my strategies. Each year we learn a little more and apply what we’ve learned when we try again.

    And yay for your cherry tomatoes! Sounds like you were blessed with some prolific volunteers. Nice! I have friends who regularly get volunteers in their gardens due to tomatoes self-seeding.
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    1. Thena says:

      I’ll take the free producers! 🙂 Thanks for reading!

  2. Sophia says:

    This is great! You’re an amazing writer..

    1. Thena says:

      Thank you so much! You made my day!

  3. Emily says:

    Haha I’m guilty of the gardening but I do love seeing flowers and basil sprout like crazy! 🙂 But you’re right, some vegetables, unless you have a massive plot of land, are much easier and cost effective to buy straight from the store. I do love growing herbs though because nothing sucks more than buying a whole thing of basil for $4 when you just really need a few leaves!

    1. Thena says:

      There is truth in that. Plus, the smell is so good right outside your door!

  4. Ha! This is soooo relatable! Failure #1 is so, so true. I make a lot of smoothies, so I have that problem more than I’d like to admit. You’d think that, after making smoothies and buying produce for so long, I’d have a better handle on not letting things go bad! Such a great post 🙂

    1. Thena says:

      I fool myself every. time. 🙂

  5. katherine says:

    I loved reading this! Often when we have our own failures we forget that other people have theirs too! So to have that sudden realisation that you are not the only one makes you feel a lot better!

    1. Thena says:

      I fail every day! 🙂

  6. Jen Temcio says:

    You are so awesome and I love reading your posts. I get caught up in things like this too (spending money to save money) and I need to stop.
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    1. Thena says:

      Wow, thank you for the great compliment!! 🙂 Thank you for reading!

  7. Anna says:

    I’m totally guilty of buying too many veggies and fruit in bulk. One trick I’ve learned is to just go to the grocery store more frequently, so I don’t end up wasting food. I’m still working on this though.

    1. Thena says:

      Yes, I agree. I’ve been trying to go weekly now more often.

    2. Jen Temcio says:

      I usually bought as much as I could in one trip so I didn’t have to go back (since I don’t like shopping) but lately I have been doing the same, going every few days and it makes less waste.
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      1. Thena says:

        Yes, that works so well.

  8. I am laughing because each time I read a new line, I’m saying to myself, “yep, yep, that’s me.” It’s good to laugh at ourselves sometimes. My frugal failure is that it’s really hard for me to resist a really good sale where I buy a bunch of “staple” pieces that I think I have really been wanting but then never wear. Happens every shopping trip. Thanks for sharing your thoughts – great post!

  9. Oh man buying fresh food in bulk is a failture for me, too! We only have a family of three, so anything in bulk won’t get eaten up fast enough. Also, I kill all my plants! I try and try to have herbs or veggies and they just die. My husband, however, has a green thumb and that helps.

    1. Thena says:

      My hubby helps out a ton too. and by helps out, I mean typically takes over because I slack. 🙂

  10. Zoran Stankovic says:

    You are so awesome !I love reading your posts!This is so relatable!#1 is so so true!

  11. I have been so worried about the garden one. I am terrible with plants and the ones I do have I have very tightly scheduled. A garden is so variable. That’s hilarious that you didn’t plant and got tomatoes!
    I get my veggies delieverd so I don’t over buy. It’s a little more pricer but there’s so much less waste!
    Totally sucks that the car was a lemon. My failures usually involve impulse shopping like books, clothes or shoes!

    1. Thena says:

      Mine would be books too!!

  12. Agreed on all of the above, especially #1! Fruits and veggies usually expire faster than I can eat them. It’s hard not to buy when I see a good deal.

    1. Thena says:

      I know, right!!!

  13. I love this post, you are a great writer, hilarious! we’ve all done some of these things if not all.

    1. Thena says:

      Aw, thank you!!!

  14. Cheryl says:

    I’m VERY guilty of #3 and #4…LOL!

  15. Chevelle says:

    Yes, yes, and yes! I have a family member that grows a garden every year and probably spends upwards of $1,000 plus all of their time and effort. How can one person possibly consume that much fruit and veggies. Drives me mad! I love the spirit of saving money but at some point common sense needs to prevail. Amazing post!
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  16. I’m very frugal at times as well — this is super awesome thanks for sharing it!

    1. Thena says:

      Thanks for reading!

  17. I would never drive long to get to a sale that’s definitely going to take a toll on my gas! I am guilty of buying fruits and veggies in bulk though! That’s totally a wrong decision!

  18. Jamie says:

    I do the “oh it’s on sale let’s buy 10” fail all the time. And, I don’t know how much produce goes to waste at my house but it’s a lot…it’s almost made it hard to buy any because I know we won’t eat it! (Apples and bananas are the two exceptions to this rule). I feel ya on the car – we bought from a dealer but we’ve had nothing but trouble. New cars are so expensive though!! Great post- had me knodding my head a lot!

    1. Thena says:

      Thanks for reading!!

  19. Taylor says:

    This is so interesting…not only do I think every single one of us have done most of what’s on the list, we don’t think about the psychological impact the commercial world has on us every day! Great read 🙂


  20. Emma Raphael says:

    Yep, bulk fruit buyer here (you should see the inside of my freezer, it’s full of bananas! 😀 ) and I am terrible with plants. Loved this post, very funny!

    1. Thena says:

      At least bananas freeze well! 🙂

  21. Sara says:

    I definitely feel you when it comes to buying in bulk. My hubby and I can’t possible eat that much. So we only buy bulk on items that last a long time these days. Less worry about food waste 😊. Makes life easier! And that way I don’t feel inclined to find a way to eat 27lbs of apples either! 😅

  22. Amanda Clark says:

    Agreed on so many levels! I can so relate. Love this!

  23. Sylvia says:

    Nice and entertaining read. The story with the 2nd hand car is priceless.

    1. Thena says:

      It’s something we will never forget, that’s for sure. 🙂

  24. Dawn Lioutas says:

    Love your honesty. Great post. I know I am guilty of a few of these. So refreshing to read this and see that I am not alone.

  25. oh my… I’ve done all of the above except for the car… We still, at times, end up with some strange meal that I made in order to use all the “just about ready for composting” foods. Thanks for the reminder – we waste way too much in our bountiful lives.
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  26. nefeli says:

    I’m exactly the opposite of a frugal, competitive person. I love your power if you have balanced the frustration to the not winning times.

  27. steph says:

    Oh man! I can so relate to these! The bulk buying fruit thing has to stop. I have done this so many times thinking I will use it all and never do. Such a waste.
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    1. Thena says:

      It’s such a bummer!

  28. I do the food thing for sure, when the stuff is reduced you purchase everything because it’s cheap but then don’t end up eating it! 🙂
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    1. Thena says:

      Yep, and then in the trash. 🙁

  29. Yep, I’m guilty of a few of these myself! I’ve definitely done #1 a time or two and as much fruits and veggies that we go through, it is never the amount I think it is and I am left with something that rots or sprouts before I can use it.
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  30. Zoran Stankovic says:

    I love the post!You are a great writer!

  31. Mel says:

    I do exactly the same with fruit and veg! We have ever so good intentions don’t we but never quite match up to them, haha

  32. Jere Cassidy says:

    Loved this article. Yes, I planted 2 tomatoes bushes this year only to yield 1 tomato. Spent way too much time watering and removing the worms from the dang bushes.
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  33. jin says:

    I know exactly how you feel! I used to penny pinch when I was really, really low on money. But after awhile, I had decided that it’s not worth saving pennies here and there. My husband is actually a fan of buying things in bulk – when in actuality, it’s way too much items for just the 2 of us and they end up rotting away!
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  34. Sam says:

    Haha buying veggies in bulk. Made me laugh out loud because this is me. And I regret it every time!

    1. Thena says:

      But we still do it!

  35. Stephanie says:

    These are all great! Although I have had pretty good success with my garden until it got too hot in the summer.
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  36. Monique says:

    Loved this post so much. I feel like I’m guilty of doing everything here. It’s funny, you don’t realise you have a habit until you take a step back and you’re like “why am I doing that?”

    1. Thena says:

      Totally! Thank you!

  37. Joline says:

    I’m so guilty of buying everything in bulk! In my head I’m saving money but in reality, since it’s just the 2 of us (right??), buying in bulk is really silly.

  38. Allison says:

    Love these! I could never buy fruits and veggies in bulk either. I let like two rot on my counter much less BULK!
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  39. Oh I learned buying in bulk the hard way too lol. It’s always the bananas though! Like seriously, y’all beg for them everyday and when I get enough for 4 kids to have several throughout the week they don’t! Kids I tell ya! lol
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    1. Thena says:

      I know, us too!!!

  40. Cecilia says:

    Haha, I am so guilty of buying fruits and veggies in bulk. It is such a struggle.

  41. Gayathri says:

    I love reading your posts.They are so hilarious and I can see your personality through. Surprisingly I don’t do any of these!

    1. Thena says:

      Thank you and that is good! 🙂

  42. Katie says:

    Frugality is great as long as you can balance it with making the small jumps that can lead to success. I tend towards being too frugal. Sometimes success requires calculated risk. Great tips!
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  43. The ‘in bulk’ thing is one that always gets me. I either buy too much food or I make too much food with the aimt to eat the leftovers. More ofthen than not, we forget we have half a pie in the fridge and have to bye evtra dinner anyway!

  44. Pooja Sharma says:

    I do the first one all the time. And I obviously think like the same. Not next time but it actually means until next time :/

  45. Shibani says:

    What a wonderful list!! Completely agree with 3rd and 4th point. We can’t expect to save money by going unnecessary extra 5miles. That sale deal is profiting the shop dealers more than us!! I have literally tons of clothes bought from sale – so-called *deal* but ended up not wearing them or maybe like once a loved your post.

  46. rochelle says:

    I laughed so hard at this! especially fruit in bulk. I live on my own and make this mistake every single week. my new thing of buying in bulk *cotton candy grapes* AHHHH-mazing! Except when you buy 5 punnets because they are on offer. forgetting to check the date, which is tomorrow by the way, and I have 2 more punnets to go. ughhh
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    1. Thena says:

      Cotton candy grapes are awesome!

  47. Nicole Flint says:

    I used to buy so much fruit in bulk and I live alone thinking I was going to eat it all and it has wasted me so much money! I have definitely learned that lesson LOL

  48. But the bright side of it all is that we live and learn. Sometimes we think saving money is the biggest win, but as you noticed money – time – efficiency – and wastage – everything matters.

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  49. Great article. I enjoyed the humor while learning!

  50. princy says:

    sounds like me all the time ! well wriiten @

  51. Haha! I loved this post I am guilty of Failure 3 and 4. I will drive miles just to save a buck but in turn I’m pretty sure I still waste that buck driving back home lol.

  52. Hannah says:

    Ive overpurchased sale items. Its really easy to do, especially if things are really cheap

  53. Kim says:

    I am so guilty of #4 as well. It’s hard for me to say no when I see something on sale haha

  54. Nidhi Thawal says:

    I can completely identify with most of the things written here! Thanks for sharing! Happy writing! 🙂

  55. This is very sound advice. I wish I had practiced this strategy a long time ago. A lot of food would not have gone to waste. Smaller packaging has been helpful for our family, even if it does cost more.

  56. I think that we can all get caught up in getting hooked on the sale that we can end up paying a dollar to save five sense. When we get to that point we do need to take a step back.
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    1. Thena says:

      Once I start, I can’t stop!

  57. Lois Alter Mark says:

    Oh, I can totally relate to this! I’ve bought so many things in bulk that turn out to be a waste. Fruits and vegetables are the worst because they spoil so quickly, making the ones we actually eat very expensive!

  58. Cynthia says:

    That was a fun read! I am guilty of the first, and way too often. It’s like if I don’t buy that box of pineapples now, I will never eat pineapple again, and then… to waste; I have yet to try to plant a garden, but since every plant in my household dies… I don’t think I’d be successful at that either!
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    1. Thena says:

      I have no green thumb. At all!

  59. Hannah says:

    Oh my life, this is so me! Literally every single one. I buy a ton of apples and then spend more money buying ingredients to make stuff with them, that I end up chucking a couple of months later when I need room in the freezer! So silly lol. One day we will learn!

  60. OMG! These are so funny (and relateable)! I particularly loveee #3!
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  61. Sarah says:

    I’ve definitely done #3 a few times!

  62. Christiana says:

    What an interesting and informative read. I also a lot like you have written here always trying to get everything perfectly done but every time I am reminded that I am only human.

  63. Your apple story is absolutely hilarious! Of course they wouldn’t like apples that week!!! I’ve never been a ‘frugal’ type person. So thank goodness none of these I’ve done. I have thought about starting a small herb garden. Maybe…

    1. Thena says:

      You should do it. Key word “small”. 🙂

  64. sonali jain says:

    Me and my father used to grow herbs earlier. you’re right, some vegetables, unless you have a massive plot of land, are much easier and cost effective to buy straight from the store. AWesome read 🙂
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  65. I definitely need to stop buying fruits in bulk. I always say I’m going to make smoothies daily and I run out of town and end up wasting money.

    1. Thena says:

      I would love to try to make a smoothie!

  66. I am so guilty of most of these – especially buying too many of the thing on offer!

  67. What a great post – thanks so much for sharing!

  68. Elena says:

    I can relate to most of the things you are saying here. It is true we are humans and we are allowed to make mistakes, as long as we learn from them.
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  69. dena says:

    I am SO SO SO bad at over spending in the sales! x

  70. Lindy says:

    I have to admit to chuckling a few times. I can definitely relate to the beginning where you said it’s more the thrill of the bargain. I love finding a bargain but then never buy it because I end up talking myself out of it, then when it’s full price again I must have it, ha ha. I’m my own worst enemy.

  71. Louise says:

    It’s so refreshing to read a post like this. I usually read all positive stuff and it makes me feel useless at life 🙂

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  72. Mistle says:

    I am so guilty of all of these! Especially of over buying items when they are on sale.

  73. Ananda says:

    oh my, this is so insightful! =) we all make silly decisions like these, don’t we?!? =)

    1. Thena says:

      All day, every day!

  74. I’m useless at gardening too – every year I try and save some money by growing veg and every year everything dies!

    1. Thena says:

      We are in the same boat!!

  75. We have bought loads of veg trying to be frugal and it’s gone to waste. We are working on it because being frugal is so important to me. I now chop things up and freeze them and try to use just a small amount as and when I need it. Great post!

    1. Thena says:

      We freeze a lot too!

  76. Oh no, bummer about the car. That would be horrible to be stuck with a lemon. Thanks for your valuable information, I need to leave emotions aside when faced with decisions.

    1. Thena says:

      It’s a learning process!

  77. Pammy says:

    I can relate to this as I feel that kind of failure as well at times but I really have to improve my decision making! I love reading this!

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  78. Jill says:

    I LOVED this post, girl!! Definitely trying to be more frugal in my everyday life…but it’s definitely a challenge! This post is so relatable so THANK YOU for that.

    1. Thena says:

      Thank you for reading!!!

  79. I have been trying to garden but i really sucks in it. And the fruits too, i do but fruits but it get to expires easily and i ended throwing some of it.

  80. lau says:

    I feel you! enjoyed the post, keep it up!


  81. Joanna says:

    I am guilty of buying fruits and vegetables in bulk as well. I don’t like shopping so trying to go to the supermarket only once a week, I end up with a ton of fruits and vegetables that by midweek are already going bad and end up in the bin. I should do better…

    1. Thena says:

      Every day is a new day!

  82. The garden was my failure too. I thought I could grow everything and save but it costs money to take care of it and a lot of work to be successful.

  83. Betty says:

    Oh, I’m the worst at bulk buying, especially produce. I once ordered a case of white gravy mix from the manufacturer. It was so good, and so easy, but how many times per year does a family make biscuits and gravy?! It “expired” a couple of months ago, but can’t bring myself to throw it away. Or use it. #FAIL Gardening? Don’t get me started- did you know you have to water it every day? I’m out.

    1. Thena says:

      Every day?! Too much. 😉

  84. I try to be frugal, but I’m not very good at it! I end up spending my money somehow.

    1. Thena says:

      I understand that..!!

  85. Tara says:

    totally guilty of buying a bazillion fruits and veggies only to have them go bad! and i keep doing it.. shame shame shame!
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  86. So many good points! I rarely buy anything in bulk because we end up just wasting it!



  87. Oyinkan says:

    Omg I over spend on sale items too. When I look at my monthly expenses, I have to remind myself of was all on sale.
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  88. Rebecca says:

    Amen to gardening and driving too far to save too little! Of course, gardening is my husband’s hobby so I don’t guess it’s really a waste of money. But I have to bite my tongue when he wants to grow potatoes and I’m looking at the sales paper and potatoes only cost $2.99 for 5 pounds. It makes him happy so I put my cost/benefit analyzer on the shelf 🙂

  89. Ingrid says:

    This post is really funny. I am also one to look for deals especially in clothes. When I make a good deal I feel like I am ahead of the competition. However I must say I pick quality clothes. Also you shared that t you would drive 5 miles to save fifty cents, I would do similarly but my my husband would say to me “you have to put a price on your effort”. So are we really saving on these frugal exploits?

    1. Thena says:

      Not really at all!

  90. I have been a penny pincher and obsessed with saving since the kids were very young and we couldn’t make it from paycheck to paycheck. Back in the day, I would get so excited when I would spend only about $35 for a week’s worth of groceries for all 4 of us. As the years rolled on by and $$ was not as tight, I stopped doing the things that were really a waste of time and effort – much like you did. Buying too much in bulk and driving out of the way to save only $0.50! We all live and learn 😉

  91. Eve says:

    I am learning how to store things I buy in bulk. Savings is my middle name and I love your article. Thanks.


  92. Aireona says:

    I have many frugal failures, particularly when I get really stressed out. I either feel the need to start eating out a bunch or buy a few things for myself. I really don’t know how to solve that, because stress is something that I will always have to deal with.

  93. Jessie koo says:

    Spot on for gardening. Haha. Had been buying pots and soil for lots of time and it gets hubby to put a stop On this!

  94. tissy says:

    Great read – relatable on so many levels! Love the interwoven humor too – much enjoyed

  95. Lisa says:

    Oh my gosh this made me laugh, so many of us think we are saving by doing these very same things but really we are NOT! I so needed to have a good laugh today, thanks for your great writing and honesty!

  96. Kathryne says:

    Yeah, I can totally relate. I buy fruits and vegetables on a weeekly basis although it’s quite a hassle but eating fresh is important! I suck at gardening too. I have always wanted to plant my own vegetables and herbs but I don’t have green thumb. One crazy thing I want to add is to buy unnecessary things to avail free shipping!

  97. Ithfifi says:

    This is a very honest and brilliant post, I think we are all guilty of doing at least one of the things you’ve listed. I think I like the chase of a deal too, I always over research and see how cheap I can get what I’m looking for and then right at the end..right when I’ve found that sweet price I’m willing to part with I decide that item isn’t for me at all!
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  98. Linda says:

    Purchasing items on sale, buying veggies in bulk, emotional shopping, planting a failing garden; girl who’s your mama! Are we sisters? I couldn’t help but think about my life as I read this. It’s crazy how much alike we are. Oh, I bought ice cream today while it was raining because there was an offer, I never let offers go. I think it’s an obsession

  99. Diana says:

    Definitely guilty of #4, now I avoid buying bulk on sale food items, but will bulk up on paper towels or toilet paper if I ever see a great clearance deal! Now if it’s really good like 10 cents canned food, then I bulk up anyway and donate what we don’t like.

  100. lindsay says:

    UUG I FEEL THIS ON SO MANY LEVELS. Especially buying the veggies and fruits in bulk! I feel like it took me waaay too long to figure out that I could chop things up and freeze them if I really needed to. Especially since most of my veggies and fruits went to juicing and smoothies. Being frugal is so hard. You try to be conscientious of everything, and sometimes you just have to remember you are a normal human who makes mistakes too. lol

  101. Nicole Stone says:

    LOL all I could think about when reading this was “Yep, that’s me too”. I so often try so hard to save money that I end up make stupid purchases.

    Fun read!

  102. Cia Black says:

    Planting a garden was an epic failure for me. It was so pathetically hilarious. I laugh so hard everytime I looked over at it. But I do by fruits and veggies in bulk, I freeze them or can them which always works out best during the summer because the farmers stands always have the best prices.

  103. Amy says:

    My frugal failures are always Costco related. It’s just me and my husband, but I can’t resist buying in bulk. I have to stop myself from buying food there!

  104. I giggled but in my house go figure it’s salad mixes NEVER fails we buy them like they going out of stock only to find the bags a week later all yuck and nasty AHHH but will we do it again? Hmm YEAH lol
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  105. Lexie Mary says:

    Lovely post to read, its really cool to know that we always try to be frugal in every single thing as we wanted to minimize our expenses but as expected, buying too much will always bring us into fail 🙂 thanks for this beautiful content

  106. Dona says:

    I’m guilty. I’ve failed a lot at being frugal and yet I continue on my mission. I’ve bought too many fruits and vegetables thinking that it would fill the bellies in my home only to have to throw them out later. What’s funny is I usually make the purchase based on the eating habits that I noticed before they’ve gone on sale. I’ve never planted a garden but I have grown way too many herbs. LOL. I wait until I need enough items from a store far away from home before I travel there.

  107. Tabitha says:

    Omg i have done most of these. I couldn’t plant a garden on the best day!

  108. Kay says:

    LOL such a personable post, love it!

  109. LOL! High five! I have the same failures with you, except about the car, cause I don’t have a car and don’t want to buy it. We only have to relax and except our conditions to avoid stress.

  110. Lynn Woods says:

    Oh goodness, yes! I used to be sooo guilty of #1! Then I finally realized I wasn’t saving NY money because I was throwing away more than I was eating. Now I meal plan and shop each week. It’s worked so much better!
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  111. Tina Grant says:

    I can certainly relate to the buying veggies in bulk mistake. I have done this many times, I love fresh fruit and veggies and tell myself I will eat them all every time, but after a few days I am burned out on my 10lbs of apples after eating 2- 3 a day but I just can’t resist a good deal. Turns out it wasn’t such a good deal when I’m throwing half of them away. But yet I keep doing it grr
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  112. Ah yes, we have all some “buy failures” in our daily lives. When COSTCO arrived in our area, it seemed like a fabulous store, and it is… but not for everything. I am convinced that COSTCO and their foods are aimed at families with 6 kids and more!
    I still shop there but only for known things that I will not be adding to my trashcan or feverishly bake in strange recipes! Items such as toilet paper, dish and laundry soaps, etc. Things that have a forever shelf life. Gone are the days of the 25 lbs apple bags – been there, done that too!
    Fun article, and know, that YOU are not alone!
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  113. Ashley says:

    This is great. I am the same way about sales and buying things in bulk. Gotta love a good deal

  114. Holly says:

    Haha! Boy, can I ever relate to the garden failures! I planted garlic only to forget that’s what was growing in a particular spot and mowed it all down!

  115. Bea says:

    Ahah I think I am not the only one seeing myself in your post! For me, the failure #1 is pretty much every time I go to the supermarket ^^

  116. Brandy says:

    Being honest matters and knowing where you failed so to speak, you can work to be better at next time. That’s how I see it, glad you shared this as it will help others and it was a little funny too 🙂

  117. Kari says:

    Bummer about your garden! I love gardening and end up planting way too much of everything.

  118. Tanya Ince says:

    I’ve done all of them, except gardening. I think we get caught up in details and lose the sight of a big picture sometimes. I’m learning to value my time more as well. Meal planning helps me not to waste food. If I know exactly what I need for a week of cooked meals, I won’t buy anything extra.
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  119. Tee says:

    lol, this is soo funny! I can relate – especially with the over purchasing fruit items. For some reason when we buy them in bulk we don’t eat much. But when we have a few at home, we seem to eat more. lol.

  120. I LOVED this post – it’s super relatable! I’m definitely guilty of most of these, especially driving to different locations just to save some money and also lack of self-control when it comes to sale items, haha.
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  121. Hra says:

    Hahaha what a post .I think that i have probably done the most of these. I feel guilty 😛

  122. Medha says:

    Haha i am sure most people are guilty of either some or all of the above! I often buy fruits and veggies in bulk and later curse myself for doing it. And over purchasing sale items – of course, so many times !!

  123. I too and guility of buying veg and fruit in bulk when the offers are so tempting and end up not using them all and adding to the compost head. Silly me, I really shouldn’t be swayed in to buying the first place.

  124. Kriti says:

    Love to Read your article.. !! You are such a great writer.. I really like the topic you use.. very interesting.. Even true!! Thanks for sharing !!
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  125. Odette says:

    Over purchasing sale items is probably my biggest frugal fail. Especially with fresh fruit and veggies. I always buy too much because it’s on sale and I end up not being able to use it all before they expire.

  126. I’ve done a lot of these as well — except gardening lol never been a green thumb!
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  127. Heather says:

    I love all of these! I tend to buy a lot of produce, but not so much in bulk. I love gardening as well, but I am horrible at weeding…as in I give up come mid-August…right when we are harvesting everything. Eh, it is what it is 🙂
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  128. Laura says:

    I love this post! I think my biggest frugal failure has to be buying fruits and veggies in bulk. I get into major trouble at farmer’s markets because it is all just so pretty, and oh, I’ve never heard of this vegetable before but I am going to make an awesome recipe with it! Yeah, never happens. Ugh. Fun, comical post!

    1. Thena says:

      Thanks for reading!!

  129. Blair villanueva says:

    Failing doesn’t mean losing. Failing means gaining experience. All masters of their craft fails to learn.

  130. Those are some of the things that I have also been guilty of in the past while following a budget. It’s definitely part of learning to save better.
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  131. Interesting post! My score is 4/5 🙂 Biggest frugal failure would be buying fruits and vegetables in bulk. But what to do!? Fresh fruits and vegetables in farmers market tempt me 🙁 But reading your post and some of the responses to it made me realize that I’m not the only one. Haha…
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  132. My best friend is the most frugal person I know and i see these mishaps in your actions. She has learned a lot over the past year and now she has not wanted as much time and money as she did in the past. I’m sharing with her, because we just recently celebrated her and I know she will get a kick out of this post.

  133. Lucrezia says:

    I’m guilty of most of those! So really relatable post, but also quite refreshing in this jungle of look how I saved money with this, this is how you should spend your money, buy this and all your financial problems will be gone… lol and just to make my comment even more non-sensical look what my latest post is about! lol

  134. I can sympathize with you trying to purchase used cars and not making sure that what you had was a well-running vehicle. It can be so frustrating when cars to turn out to be lemons. And the bulk fruit made me laugh. I struggle as a single parent knowing the right amount of anything to have because if it’s just me I don’t eat enough of what they sell or if it’s me and my daughter I might not either. It’s all frustrating shopping for food that way.
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  135. Tiffany Yong says:

    Confession: I’m also guilty of what you’ve listed out. Just that I don’t buy second hand car simply because in Singapore, it’s not cheap to drive or buy cars~ But I have a weakness when it comes to things sold in quantities on sale!
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  136. Luci says:

    I try to pinch every penny that I can. One thing that I can be guilty of is going to multiply stores to find a product that can be only a dollar cheaper.
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  137. Hannah Vu says:

    These mistakes sound familiar cuz they happen to almost of us. Love your sense of humor, you turn these mistakes into a funny post and you’re succeed in making people recognize and learn from their mistakes. Thanks for this post anw!

  138. Hoan Chau says:

    I’m always making those mistakes, but thank god not the last one. I am addicted to online shopping and sale-off. Whenever it comes to things with cheaper prices, I just want to put them all in the basket (I sometimes purchase useless items unconsciously). Anyway, it is fun to find someone who has similar characteristic with me 😄 pls share more about your story

  139. oyinkan says:

    I don’t think you’re a failure. You’re human. Life happens. We fall down but always get back up. You’ll reach your goals.

  140. You have such a strong personality having the courage to post something like admitting your mistakes and learning from them. Great to have read this post.
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  141. Ching says:

    I was destined to become frugal;your post described my mom to a T! She would buy things on sale just because they were on sale haha. But she always use to tell me “be frugal now and when you’re older,you’ll be thankful because you have money saved away”. She came home with some lemons too 🙂

  142. Elizabeth O says:

    I agreed on some many levels. But you have strong personalities to share having the courage to share something like this admitting your mistakes and learning from them.

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